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Afterbath — reflections after the sound

Enlightened Relationships — A Sound Bath on Presence and Connection

  • Feb 7
  • 4 min read

A reflective Sound Bath for relationships, fear, and letting go 🌿



Welcome.

This Sound Bath reflection is an invitation to explore relationships — and what begins to change when presence enters the space between two people.

Rather than offering advice or solutions, this Sound Bath is about noticing. About listening. About seeing how love, fear, attachment, and awareness quietly shape the way we relate to one another.



Pale yellow water lily blooms among green reeds and lily pads in a sunlit pond, creating a tranquil and serene atmosphere.
Lily Flower surrounded by Lily pads


Enlightened Relationships — A Spoken Reflection Sound Bath

With any strong emotion, there is always an opposite.

With great love, often comes great fear.

Fear of loss. Fear of being hurt. Fear of things ending.

For many years, I noticed this in myself. When my partner would leave the house — even briefly — a part of me would imagine it might be the last time I saw her.

And while the affection that followed wasn’t wrong, I began to see that fear was quietly shaping the relationship.

Not love — but fear of loss.

This Sound Bath reflection begins by gently noticing that distinction.


Accepting Impermanence — A Sound Bath Reflection

Accepting death is not easy.

It feels final. Unknown.

Yet if we pause and ask honestly — what do we really know about it?

For some, experiences of deep stillness or near-death bring a sense of peace. Not a desire to die, but a quiet acceptance that life is fragile.

From that acceptance, many other fears begin to soften.

And when fear softens, love becomes less grasping.

This Sound Bath invites us to rest in that softening — without forcing understanding, and without needing certainty.


Presence in the Body and in Relationships — Sound Bath Awareness

As presence deepens, care for the body often follows naturally.

Not out of discipline, but out of respect.

And the same begins to happen in relationships.

We become more accepting of others — their beliefs, their views, their way of being.

We start to see that everyone is doing the best they can with the tools they have.

And that freedom often comes only after exploring many dead ends.

This Sound Bath supports that wider view — one where compassion replaces judgment, and patience replaces urgency.


Opposites and Growth — A Relationship Sound Bath

In relationships, we’re often drawn to our opposites.

This can be a gift — a chance to find balance.

But it can also challenge the ego.

The ego wants to be right. It wants things to stay the same.

And so we may try to change our partner, or ask them to accept us without question.

This usually leads to suffering.

We’re not here to possess one another. We’re here to grow.

This Sound Bath invites reflection on that growth — especially where resistance shows up.


Listening Without Fixing — The Heart of This Sound Bath

Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to become the quiet observer.

To listen without fixing. To stay present without being pulled into drama.

Many people simply want to be heard.

A gentle “I hear you” can dissolve more tension than any argument ever could.

Presence listens. Ego reacts.

This Sound Bath is an invitation to practice listening — first inwardly, and then outwardly.


Relationships as Mirrors — A Sound Bath on Self-Awareness

I used to carry a strong need to be liked.

That anxiety created tension — and even exhaustion — around others.

Over time, I realised that relationships are mirrors.

We don’t just meet other people. We meet ourselves through them.

Now, when I enter social situations, I try to stay grounded.

Thoughts may arise. Opinions may appear.

But not every thought needs to be spoken.

Peace often lives in restraint.

This Sound Bath supports that inner restraint — not as suppression, but as awareness.


Habit, Karma, and Letting Go — A Sound Bath Perspective

I like to think of karma simply as habit.

What we like. What we dislike. What we depend on.

Freedom isn’t about controlling life. It’s about being at ease when life doesn’t go our way.

In relationships, this means meeting each interaction fresh.

Dropping history. Letting go.

This Sound Bath invites that freshness — moment by moment.


Love, Fear, and Deep Presence — Closing the Sound Bath Reflection

The people who challenge us often help us grow the most.

Like resistance in the gym, they build strength over time.

Not easily. But deeply.

Love and fear are closely linked.

And the invitation is not to eliminate either — but to sit so deeply in presence that both begin to lose their power over us.


Transition into the Sound Bath

As this reflection comes to a close, there’s nothing to solve and nothing to change.

This is where the Sound Bath begins.

Allow the words to settle. Allow the body to rest.

Let sound do the work.


One-Hour Sound Bath

If you’d like to continue this experience, a full one-hour Sound Bath is available here:

This extended Sound Bath is ideal for deeper rest, integration, or quiet evening listening.




After the Sound Fades — A Sound Bath Reflection



After the Sound Bath ends, notice what remains.


Perhaps a sense of ease.

Perhaps nothing at all.


Stillness doesn’t always announce itself. Sometimes it’s only recognised in hindsight — in the way the body feels lighter, or the mind feels less urgent.


Afterbath is about these moments after the sound fades — when something quiet continues on its own.


Be gentle with yourself.

Return whenever you need.


— Mat



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It helps this sound medicine reach the people who may need it most.


With gratitude,

— Mat Creedon 🌀


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